Hair today, possibly gone tomorrow…

Say you’d had a really bad haircut. A haircut so bad, in fact, that even now, months later, you’re still growing it out, and while it may not look too bad to the naked eye, only you (and now the five or so people who read your blog) know how much time you have to spend trying to wrestle it into submission every morning. (Clue: a LOT of time.)

Say you know that, at the current rate of progress, you still have quite a few months to go before your hair will return to anything like “normality”.

Would you:

a) Say, “To hell with it!”, make an appointment with the hairdresser and have it cut to shoulder length (or, OK, maybe just below that), thus getting rid of most (but not all) of the mullet-like layers in one fell swoop, but leaving your hair the shortest it’s been since you were about 14. And you’re really not sure how you’re going to feel about that…

b) Say, “To hell with it!”, leave it to continue growing out for another month (even although some mornings you’d like to rip it clean out of your head) and spend the money on shoes instead.

c) Take the sensible-but-boring approach of getting it cut, but only having a couple of inches taken off, so you will continue your progress towards normal, non-layered hair, but slowly.

d) Get a fringe.*

Your feedback on this most important of issues would be appreciated.

*Note: I’m kidding about the fringe. Probably.

Hi, I'm Amber. I'm a full-time fashion/shoe blogger from the UK, and this is the story of my life, my clothes, and the International Man of Mystery Next Door. You can read more from me at my other blogs, The Fashion Police and Shoeperwoman, and you can follow me on Bloglovin' here.

24 Comments

  • Reply February 24, 2009

    Kathleen

    Option B. If you’ve already waited this long, what’s another month? Besides, I wouldn’t be able to resist new shoes. :)

  • Reply February 24, 2009

    Lindsay G

    You should get it cut to just below shoulder length, and if u hate it at least you don’t need to leave the house till it grows back. Make a wig for the rubinman with the trimmings x

  • Reply February 24, 2009

    Tracey

    I went for option A when this happened to me. Only I got a fringe as well. Don’t get the fringe, save those few extra dollars and get some new shoes as well!

    Tracey´s last blog post..Mellow Yellow Monday

  • Reply February 24, 2009

    Shannon

    Option A all the way. I have curly red hair, and it never seemed to look right. Last summer I chopped it (I actually didn’t mean to cut it that short, but (un)fortunately the person cutting my hair didn’t speak english, so it was all kind of hit or miss (no I’m not joking, but who can say no to a 15 dollar hair cut?)) and it was the best thing I ever did. I’m probably going to be taking it a little shorter this spring, more just-below-the-chin-length, but right below the shoulder is a great way to ease yourself into short hair, hehe.

    I think your face would compliment the short hair well, it’s pretty oval shaped, and aren’t you getting bored with having it the same? Don’t get me wrong, I think your hair looks great, it’s just that personally I get bored after having the same hairstyle for more than even 2 weeks.

    One suggestion, don’t do what I did, go to a place that you’ve heard good things about and trust. With curly hair I can get away with the sides not being perfectly even, but straight hair has a harder time pulling that off :P.

  • Reply February 24, 2009

    Mhairi

    I have just dealt with this same issue, and I got my hair cut short, like chin length at the minute. I had a bit of a mullet after growing out the style I had done before Christmas.
    Get it cut to shoulder length. It might actually surprise you how much you like it and if not then you can wear your hair up, or hide until it grows.

    Let us know how it goes.

    x

    Mhairi´s last blog post..Week 3: the results are in

  • Reply February 24, 2009

    Terry

    a. For 5 reasons,
    1 It will be the first haircut in history that I will be able to notice.
    2 I have never seen you with shorter hair
    3 Why not take a risk? :)
    4 If you don’t like it then it will grow back.
    5 You have good facial bones :P

  • Reply February 24, 2009

    Stephanie

    I had a very bad haircut a few years ago, actually the day before a job interview. It looked like I had two different haircuts on my head! After I got through the job interview (it was too late when I realized how bad it was), I did try to slower growing out method (choice C) but after agonizing over it and all I could see when I looked at my hair was that haircut— I went for choice A and was much happier! I mean even if it seemed alot shorter (only to me not to other people) it was better than being traumatized by the bad haircut every morning!

  • Reply February 24, 2009

    Jenny

    B. I can’t seem to pick anything that doesn’t end in “spend it on shoes”..

  • Reply February 25, 2009

    Louise

    I’m going with the crowed here, but I think A

    Hey, it’s only hair!

    Louise´s last blog post..Fire

  • Reply February 25, 2009

    Bex

    This has happened to me! It was horrific and my hair has never been the same since. I'm in denial! I suggest you try it…

  • Reply February 25, 2009

    Amanda Nicole

    I choose B. Let it grow a bit longer so you're not freaked about the length & you'll know the results will be better. In the meantime you can get crafty with headbands, or fashion turbans.

    <abbr>Amanda Nicole´s last blog post..my first ten years</abbr>

  • Reply February 25, 2009

    Amy

    I would take option e) wear a pony tail every day until I’m satisfied with my hair. That is what I did when the stylist cut my long hair with layers starting at four inches (yes, four inches from my scalp). Really freaking short layers for someone with long hair.

    Oddly, getting the wrong color is more traumatizing than the wrong cut. I am trying to go back to my natural color and had about six months of grow out and asked a stylist to bring that color through my hair with minimal highlights and she interpreted that to make me blonde again. And I cried about that, but not the awful layers.

  • Reply February 25, 2009

    Stacey

    What I always do is option C. It may be boring but I’m usually pretty happy with the results.

    I also stress more about the wrong color. A few years ago, I wanted to try to go back to my natural color – a dark blonde – and get a shorter haircut at the same time. At the time, I had really light blonde hair that was a little past shoulder length. A hour later I came out with GREEN hair with white highlights and layers that were so short they stuck straight out the back of my head. This was from a well respected hair salon too! I cried so much and got my money back so I could go to a different salon. I got the color fixed but there was nothing they could do to fix the cut. Ponytails weren’t an option, my hair was so short. It took about a good 2 months before my hair became long enough to even do anything with, I just relied on a lot of hair products.

    After that, I’ve become scared to do anything different or drastic to my hair, so I’ve had the same cut and color for about 4 years now. I would love to color my hair red but am afraid it’d turn out purple or orange so I’m just going to keep on being a blonde!

  • Reply February 25, 2009

    Erin

    A! A! A!

    Did I mention… A! :)

    Short is great – go just under your shoulders and you can do SO much with it. It’s great for styling a little differently and works beautifully with all kinds of hairclip/band goodies :)

    I did this, and since then have gone for shorter because I loved it short so much. My hair’s now grown to my shoulders and I’m keen to get it cut again because it’s too long ;)

    Erin´s last blog post..Me-me-me-meeeeeee!

  • Reply February 25, 2009

    Kat

    Oh man, I came over here for encouraging words. Going to get a haircut today myself and facing a similar issue. I want my hair to grow out though currently I look like Richard Lionheart.

    I say let it grow out. Don't have it cut short(er) you're going to regret it.

    <abbr>Kat´s last blog post..What Did I Do?</abbr>

  • Reply February 25, 2009

    Fi

    Option A definitely. Once you go a bit shorter you will wonder why you didn't do it before. It's SO much easier & quicker to wash, dry and style hair that is a bit shorter. I reckon just below your shoulders will be perfect, still long enough to tie up for the gym and still long, but just easier to manage.

    But repeat after me: no fringe!

    <abbr>Fi´s last blog post..Outfit: Black & Blue Tuesday</abbr>

  • Reply February 25, 2009

    Toni

    As someone who has – genuinely – had actual nightmares about getting my long hair cut, I naturally hover on option A.

    BUT (for yes, there is a but)… you'd probably look stunning with shorter hair. And say you do hate it, you'll probably be tying it back for a few months… isn't that what you're doing now? And at least The Mullet Layers will be gone :)

    <abbr>Toni´s last blog post..Photos I Love #WhateverItIsNow: Oh, Boys.</abbr>

  • Reply February 25, 2009

    LizSara

    I am having the same growing layers out issue at the moment. I am taking the boring getting one cut out at a time approach but my hair is quite short so it isn't as bad. I suggest option A

    <abbr>LizSara´s last blog post..A bit pink you say, no that’ll be the plaster dust</abbr>

  • Reply February 25, 2009

    Sophie

    I say Option A :) I think short-ish could be good! (then you would be free of mullet too…)

  • Reply February 25, 2009

    Heather Bestel

    Amber, I really sympathise. I think I must have a hairdresser phobia (there must be a name for that). It really is scary to trust a stranger with my hair. I have always loved having long hair and although I get bored of it sometimes, I always regret when I have had it cut short and can't wait for it to grow back.

    I'm sorry to say that only you can make the decision, as it is only you that has to live with the consquences.

    Good luck

    Heather

    PS. I love your hair in your photos. It's beautiful, full of lushious life and really suits you.

    <abbr>Heather Bestel´s last blog post..Stress Tip of the Week – Give Yourself a Treat</abbr>

  • Reply February 25, 2009

    Phred

    You will probably end up going with D once you hit the salon no matter what choice you eventually decide to go with.

  • Reply February 25, 2009

    Hilary

    I always regret cutting my hair and yours is really gorgeous. I say keep the length- though Terry is right, you will look great with short hair, too.

    <abbr>Hilary´s last blog post..Things I am Ignoring This Week</abbr>

  • Reply February 25, 2009

    Kristabella

    A. But I’m the wrong person to ask because I don’t actually care about my hair that much, since I always know it will grow back.

    I let my stylist do whatever she wants.

    Kristabella´s last blog post..Serenity Now

  • Reply February 27, 2009

    gokarm

    When I was much younger, maybe 8th grade or so, I got a haircut at J.C. Penney’s and the woman gave me a bad farrah fawcett like mullet complete with feathering and what not. Mind you, this was in the later half of the 90′s. It was a lot of upkeep and no way was an 8th grader going to blow out her hair every damn day. So when I washed it and air-dried it like usual, it was so bad…SOOOO bad. I looked like an ugly mangy cocker spaniel or a trucker. And I just couldn’t stop crying for 3 days so my mom took me outside and just chopped the mullet part off. Best thing to happen to me. I looked older, cuter, completely made-over and I’ve been addicted to changing my hairstyle drastically ever since. I grow it out just so I can cut it all off again. So…my advice is option A. You may be surprised how much you love shorter hair.

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